Can i romance thane and garrus

When I finally got the chance to play it, I decided - against my better judgement - that I was going to play Shepard as straight. The game decided to kick my heart in the crotch for it. A lesbian Shep, though, can get by just about okay, so long as you consider the monogendered but femme coded asari to be lesbian options.

Goddamn does the game do Thane dirty. Mass Effect 3 is ultimately a game about loss, and death is part of that. Thane has a terminal disease, and the galaxy is on the brink of destruction. We were never going to make it through Mass Effect 3 unscathed. In the third game, you meet Thane at the Citadel hospital, where his condition has deteriorated. Nevertheless, when the Citadel is attacked, he springs to your defence against Kai Leng. Post-attack, you visit Thane in the hospital and are there for his last moments.

You pray over his body, and he prays for you. It suits Thane, an atypical, soulful, and philosophical assassin. So why does nobody give a fuck? Near the end of the mission, Thane will stop Kai Leng from killing the salarian Councilor but will be mortally wounded in the process. After the mission and subsequent conversation with Commander Bailey of C-Sec, Shepard should get to the hospital again to see Thane one final time.

In the hospital room, Shepard can say her goodbyes, promising to "meet him across the sea. Following the prayer and Thane's death, Shepard will ask Kolyat why Thane asked for forgiveness when he died a hero, and Kolyat will tell her the final prayer was not for him, but for her.

Shepard can later read a letter Thane wrote to her, found in his Shadow Broker dossier, at her Private Terminal. Thane's name also appears on the Memorial Wall aboard the Normandy. During the Citadel DLC, after Shepard has visited with other squadmates at her apartment or on the strip, she will receive a message from Kolyat asking to hold a memorial in his father's honor.

If Shepard accepts, she and the other Mass Effect 2 squadmates who knew and worked with Thane will attend and say a few words. At the end of the memorial, Kolyat will give Shepard some video messages he found among Thane's belongings that he sent while she was incarcerated.

To view the messages, Shepard can use the large flat-screen in the main bedroom upstairs. Normally, if Shepard was just a friend of Thane's, there are three messages. If Shepard romanced Thane, there is a fourth, more intimate one reminiscing of their night together in Mass Effect 2 and promising to meet her across the sea. However if you want to be safe just save before you go talk to them so that way, if you mess up, it would be easy to correct any mistake in conversation that you make.

Hope this helps. Just make sure to go through all of the conversation options with either one; I believe there is a way to change which one you decide to do the deed with at the very end before the suicide mission , though I didn't try it myself - I figured that choosing Thane over Garrus would be depressing when Thane died from his lung disease.

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